Traveling Companions of the Cross. Lesson 3: YOU Are Created for Companionship

Travelling Companions of the Cross

Lesson 3: You Are Created for Companionship

Genesis 2:18–25


 May you become more constantly aware of the grace and peace of our Lord Jesus Christ, for they are the proof of His presence.

It’s not good…

If you read the first chapter of Genesis, you would hear God talking to Himself as He created the heavens, the earth, seas and all the creatures.

Then as He creates man and woman, He notes, this is very good!

But there is more to it than that, between the last “this is good” and the “this is very good”, there is one more phrase, the phrase that we hear in chapter two.  When the Lord God notes there is something that is wrong in creation.  Something that is not good.

Hear the words again,

“It is not good for the man to be alone.

Not good at all, but there is a solution

“I will make a helper who is just right for him.”

A Helper, a companion, the one who works alongside….

Remember that one, the one who works alongside.

For it is not good that we live life alone.  We need to have companionship, without it, creation is screwed up.

A simple summary, everything was good, then man had no companionship and it was not good, then man did, and it was very good.
They knew no barriers… and there was no guilt/shame

As we look at the end result, what chapter 1 calls very good, we see why in chapter 2.

23 “At last!” the man exclaimed. “This one is bone from my bone, and flesh from my flesh! She will be called ‘woman,’ because she was taken from ‘man.’ ”

24 This explains why a man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one. 25 Now the man and his wife were both naked, but they felt no shame.

What an incredible blessing, the fact that there was no guilt, no shame that divided them.  No embarrassment, no division, nothing that created a barrier between them.  Of course, they didn’t have a toilet seat to leave up, or trash to forget taking out.

Seriously, the Hebrew word there for naked meant there were absolutely no barriers between them, there was nothing that stopped them from seeing each other the way they truly were.

Sin of course, created those barriers, and the need for something to cover, to hide, a defensive mechanism. It is there because we don’t want to see people the way they really are, and we don’t necessarily want them to see us.

You are probably thinking just in the physical sense, but it is true for most of who we really are.

They lived perfect, sinless lives for that time, and it was very good.


There is a old theological thought, is Exitus-Reditus – that which leaves, returns.  Theologically speaking, what returns is always that which completes, and by God’s power, it is more than what left.

A rib is taken out and it returns a helper, a companion, That action made what was not good, very good.   The fellowship, the communion, the companionship that was formed ws greater than the loneliness that preceded it.  That is the power of reconciliation, the power of God’s mercy, forgiveness and healing, the power of God drawing back together that which is supposed to be one.

It’s more than just the couple – they were representative of all humanity

This is true more than in the sense of husband and wife, for example that same kind of language is used as men join David’s army

1  All the tribes of Israel came to David in Hebron and said: “Here we are, your bone and your flesh. 2 Samuel 5:1 (NAB)

Though it is a different bond than that between husband and wife, all od God’s creation was meant to live together, companions of God, companions formed at the cross, when Christ’s side was opened…and because of the blood that was spilt, a new relationship – the companionship of Jesus and His bride the church was formed.

At the pastor’s conference, our district president made mention of this when he was talking about the church.  One of his major points was this, “Servant leaders live in Intimate Community He was teaching pastors that in order to be effective pastors, we can’t be apart from our people, shepherds are companions, He even used the idea that we have to know each other in a way that sounds scary, Intimately.

Not intimate as in husband and wife, but intimate because there is no division, not barriers, no shame that divides us.  That we work together because we realize that God has brought us back to each other.

Another speaker made mention of it this way, The idea of the nuclear family being the cornerstone of society has become a 100 year failed experiment”  What he meant is that society is more than a dad, mom and children.  That prior to 100 years ago, the extended family, that included blood relations an even long term neighbors was the cornerstone of the family.  Not less intimate relationships in depth, but deeper relationships and more numerous ones.  That writer noted the amount of young people striving to live in micro-communities, what we in the church sometimes refer to as small groups.  But groups that live like in Acts, where the group survives together.  The broken world is looking for something they can’t find, yet it is what we know so well.

It is not good that man should live alone….

Followed by God saying, “I got this, you will not be”

Adam was given Eve, and humanity was born, and one day, the ultimate Companion for each of us was born, as Mary would give birth to Jesus.

So how do we get reconcile?

Not long after that, and ever since, most of us have put up barriers that frustrate our desire for companionship.  We drive away those we are called to love in Christ,  As we have come alive in Christ, that doesn’t have to happen anymore.  Reconciliation is not just a good idea, it is how God desires we live.  Reconciled to Him, reconciled as a family.

I kind of wish it could be like Adam, where God caused sleep to fall on him, and then took the bone away from him.  He then woke up, and knew the person standing before him, who would stand beside him was literally, part of him.

He recognized the work of God, that what was taken was return to make him complete, but in a way far beyond anything ever expected. 

Adam was complete – he had his helper, he had the one who completed Him.

When our companion died and rose on the cross, He took away the barriers, He destroyed the things we stop us from seeing each other.  Not the physical barriers, not the clothes.  But God destroyed the sin, and gave us a new life, made us a new creation.  He forgave all sin.  The sins we’ve committed against Him and each other. And He reminds us of that each time we remember our baptism, or commune at the altar as His family, or hear those words, your sins are forgiven.

Because of Christ our companion. Because of the cross, where our companionship was forged in His blood. For He reconciles us to God, and the in Christ, we are reconciled to each other.

That is why there is peace, a peace that passes all understanding, that guards our hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. AMEN!

About justifiedandsinner

I am a pastor of a Concordia Lutheran Church in Cerritos, California, where we rejoice in God's saving us from our sin, and the unrighteousness of the world. It is all about His work, the gift of salvation given to all who trust in Jesus Christ, and what He has done that is revealed in Scripture. God deserves all the glory, honor and praise, for He has rescued and redeemed His people.

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