Preparing for Christ’s Return by asking Why Me?

Preparing for Jesus Coming: 

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Why Me?


May Your Christmas Celebration be one where you get the answer from God our Father, and our Lord Jesus Christ, of why me?

 Parker Parable – Advent = Sleeplessness nights

It is time for a pastor parker parable, one that is a more serious note.

The parable will help us understand this advent season as it grows to a close, and help us be patient for just a few more days, until we can break loose with hallelujah’s and gloria’s and the most abundant praises our voices and hearts can sing…..

So here is the parable:

Advent is like a sleepless night!

You know, the nights where you toss and turn, and your body finds trouble resting.  The same nights when you mind is working fast than lightening, as you process every possible outcome, and how those will complicate life in the days to come?

Yeah – that kind of sleepless night.

We know these nights….

Advent is like that…..

It’s like a question we ask…

Why Me?

Advent is that time where we look to the sky, and ask that question.  “Lord, why me?”

Over the years, I’ve asked that question a million times, it’s even caused those sleepless nights, as I’ve pondered why me…..

It’s the question of Advent, as are those dark sleepless nights.

We ask in regard to tragedy, trauma and “bad luck”

We usually ask, “why me?” in those times when it seems like life overwhelms our trust in God.

Maybe we are asking the “why me?” question because we have to deal with the consequences of sin.  We can even know God’s forgiveness, and know our eternity is secure, yet we have to deal with the brokenness of things.

We ask because of the broken hearts, broken relationships, things broken by our jealously, envy, hatred, and desire.  Often we don’t sleep because of our inability to deal with temptation by our own strength or reason.  Sin is a horrid thing, and we think we have two options in dealing with it.  Either we struggle against it, or we begin to harden our own hearts, so we don’t feel judged or condemned. Either way the guilt and shame can cause us to question our existence in the dark hours of the night.

Maybe we are asking, “why me?” because we can’t see that God is working in our lives.  When we don’t doubt His existence, but we wonder if those promises are for other people.

You know, that promise we hear, that all things work together for good for those that love God?

Or that God will never leave or forsake us?

Paul talks about the fact that God’s plan was kept secret from the beginning of time, and then was revealed.  Asking “why me?” is sort of like wondering if we missed that moment when God’s plan from the ages was revealed to everyone else.

Did we miss it?  Because we did, did God forget to include us in it?

I’ve had those moments, the wondering, the questioning, the trying to make heads and tails of life.  Where you don’t know why you have all the bad luck.
I hate those kinds of sleepless nights, those times of asking why me.  Why did I grow up with a genetic issue that affects my heart and spine?  Why did I get in a motorcycle accident, or drop out of school, or have a cardiac arrest, each of those times I’ve asked that question, just as all of you have asked those “why me’s”
Just like I’ve had times where I needed to face my sin and confess it, because if dealing with the consequences now is challenging, those same sins have an eternal consequence. Just as we all have….

Good thing that Advent isn’t like those kinds of sleepless nights, that it isn’t about those times of asking “why me?”

That there is another reason for sleepless nights and asking “Why me!”

 We need to ask in view of blessings.

 Advent is like the sleepless night, or about asking “why me?”  But not in the sense of those traumatic nights I’ve mentioned.  It’s the kind of sleepless night where your joy and expectation is building up.

Like that restlessness you feel before you go on vacation with dear family and friends you haven’t seen in a while, or the night before you get married.

Or like the night before Christmas when you are a child, and try to stay up, imagining what gifts you are going to get, and who you are going to tell about it, and who you are going to share it with, and how much you are going to enjoy it!

The excitement, the expectation, the joy of the next morning is keeping you up.

When we realize what Jesus coming into our world means, we should ask, “LORD, WHY ME?” in joy, even with a little disbelief as we struggle to believe that God would love us that much!

What have we done to deserve the presence of God?  What have we done to deserve these promises that the prophets and apostles reveal to us?  What have we done to be included in this plan…


Jesus the Messiah came into this world, to live and die, for us.

He died on the cross to free us.

He rose again that we should rise with Him, and even live through this life, every moment in His presence.

When scripture talks about the gentiles being included in His plan, it’s talking about all of us who breathe, who walk, who have been baptized. Who have been made His children?  Do we realize it is talking about us?

Advent is like the time, when we can’t sleep, because we are thinking about His gifts, about His presence (and his presents!)

it is the attitude of Mary, as she hears, ““Don’t be afraid, Mary, for you have found favor with God!”

It is the joy King David, the repentant adulterer and murdered knows as he hears Nathan say, “Furthermore, the Lord declares that he will make a house for you—a dynasty of kings!

“Why Me?” they surely asked… and we would do well to ask as well.

Why God, why did you choose me?

While we wait

It is as he begins knowing the depth, the height the width and breadth of this love that Paul can say something we need to hear from this passage, that God is able to sustain us, to keep us strong, not with our strength, but surrounded by His care.

It is the message that must everyone, everyone who doubts God would love them, that believe they are separated from Him need to hear.

To make us strong there, it’s not by causing us to be spiritual superheroes.  It’s to support us, confirm us, to establish us and set us in place, to bring us to a state of peace. To know that our place in Christ cannot be challenged,

The “why Me” changes dramatically, from why would God allow this all to happen to me, to “why would God choose you, or me, or cause Jesus to die, for us.

To answer this “why me?” sustains us in those other “why me’s” and reminds us to rest in His strength, to find mercy in His peace, to look forward to His second coming with the anticipation of children awaiting Christmas morning, but doing so, not restless with anxiety and stress… but with joy… and hope, and peace… for we know His love!


About justifiedandsinner

I am a pastor of a Concordia Lutheran Church in Cerritos, California, where we rejoice in God's saving us from our sin, and the unrighteousness of the world. It is all about His work, the gift of salvation given to all who trust in Jesus Christ, and what He has done that is revealed in Scripture. God deserves all the glory, honor and praise, for He has rescued and redeemed His people.

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